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Enough

Together We Can End Violence Against Women and Girls

  • Guatemala

    Maria
    Guatemala

  • India

    Komal
    India

  • Indonesia

    Cheper
    Indonesia

  • Morocco

    Saida
    Morocco

  • Zambia

    Nalishebo
    Zambia

  • Bolivia

    Danna
    Bolivia

Every minute of the day, violence is devastating the lives of millions of women and girls around the world. It is a global crisis, already affecting one in three women in their lifetime, devastating their lives and fracturing communities.

Violence against women and girls knows no boundaries of geography or culture - but those living in poverty face higher levels of abuse. It is rooted in the inequality between men and women that women and girls face throughout their lives. Read more.

Many believe that family, friends and other important people in their lives think that violence toward women and girls is normal behaviour, so they don’t challenge it – even if they believe it’s not acceptable.

But as the video and stories across the world show, people are standing up and speaking out. Women’s rights organisations are already saving lives in tackling violence against women and girls. We stand with them to call for all women, men, girls and boys to say ‘Enough’ to violence against women and girls.

Together we can change these harmful beliefs. What is learned can be unlearned.

Watch and share our video to show why it's time to #SayEnough to violence against women and girls.

Bolivia

“Who said skatebording ain’t for girls”

Meet Danna from Bolivia

Danna is one of the first female skateboarders in La Paz, the capital city of Bolivia. She became a skateboarder despite objections that the sport was not appropriate for girls. Bolivia, like much of Latin America, remains a very sexist society. Levels of violence against women have reached frightening levels, causing the death of more than 100 women last year. This violence takes root in the common belief that women are less than men, unequal in capabilities and unequal in the rights they enjoy. For Danna, the link is clear, controlling what women can and can´t do, is a first step which can lead to other forms of violence.

I remember walking through a city park as a girl with my mother. I told her “Look mum, I want to try that!” I was already imagining myself riding the skateboard, doing tricks. Yet my mother didn’t think this was appropriate, she said “Where do you see girls? There are no girls here!”

I couldn’t settle for this and when I was 18 the first skate park was built in my city. I built up my courage and asked the boys in the park if I could have a try on a skateboard. I thought they would laugh at me. But instead, they let me use their skateboards and encouraged me to follow my dream.

I didn’t tell my mum, because I knew she wouldn’t approve. When I bought my own skateboard, I hid it under the car in the garage. I would tell her that I was going out shopping with my girlfriends, but really I would head down to the skate park at every chance I had.

Skateboarding has taught me many things. Perseverance is one of them. You learn to fall and get back on your feet. To master that one trick, you might fall a hundred times!

Now the skateboarders of La Paz are like a second family to me. Sometimes we travel to neighbouring towns to try out new skate parks. We spend so much time together. They are like brothers to me now.

Now more girls have joined the skateboarding group. There are now at least 50 in La Paz alone! Who said skateboarding ain’t for girls?

SHARE Danna’s story and #SayEnough: together we can end violence against women and girls.

Guatemala

“Despite the civil war being over, we still face violence in our daily lives.”

Meet Maria from Guatemala.

Maria Morales Jorge, a 52 year old Mayan-K’iché who grew up in Chichicastenango, Guatemala, was taught that a woman’s place was in the home, and that only men should be educated and go out to work. She knew this wasn’t right. In spite of the challenges and discrimination, as well as threats to her personal safety, she is determined to change what’s normal and encourages other indigenous women to join her.

“Indigenous people, particularly women, have suffered some of the worst political violence in Guatemala’s recent history. Despite the civil war being over, we still face violence in our daily lives.

I wasn’t able to have a formal education – school was too far and dangerous to get to, the education system suppressed indigenous languages and cultures, and my family believed that sending daughters to school would undermine our culture. So I was just taught how to weave and look after the home.

As a child, I remember being told that girls were not equal to boys; that we should stay at home and rely on the men to earn a living. I didn’t understand why it had to be like this. As I got older, I realised I was being held back by my inability to read and write, so I began to learn and decided to study law. I learnt about the rights of women and indigenous people, and it became even clearer that as women we have the right to participation - but gender and racial discrimination and machismo are obstructing our rights.

First we need to learn to value ourselves in order to break the chains of oppression, humiliation and violence. I now work, showing that women can earn money and don’t need to depend on a man. I also support other women to become leaders in their communities and to campaign for changes in local and national law. I’m proud of being part of the call to set up the Institute for the Defence of Indigenous Women which fights to protect the rights of indigenous women in Guatemala today.

We all have the opportunity to change and reject any violence and oppression. We should all have the chance to be happy.”

SHARE Maria’s story and #SayEnough: together we can end violence against women and girls.

India

“Women and girls should have equal rights as other members in the family and society. Given the opportunity, we will also prove our strength.”

Meet Komal from India.

Despite her young age, Komal from Uttar Pradesh in northern India, has already faced a lifetime of discrimination. But she’s determined to use sport to show her strength, and is literally fighting for gender equality. By challenging the belief that girls are worth less than boys, Komal is also addressing one of the root causes of violence against women and girls.

“Right from childhood, girls like me are taught to accept that men and boys are superior to them. In my district we aren’t allowed to be educated like boys. Instead our role is to take care of younger siblings and household chores - training us for our main role, as a wife. Once married, most girls around here face domestic violence as we’re just not seen as equal.

I saw wrestling as an opportunity to make my parents proud - and to show my strength as a girl. I knew my family and I would face discrimination - but I think all girls should get the same opportunities to participate in sports as the boys.

Once I make a decision, no one can stop me - so with the support of my teacher, my parents let me compete and I won the silver medal in a state wrestling competition. I proved to my community that girls can succeed!

My mother especially is really proud. She hopes my future will be full of more opportunities than she had. I believe the opportunity to study and participate in sport is something that every girl should be able to do.

Women and girls should have equal rights as other members in the family and society. Given the opportunity, we will also prove our strength. Everyone should treat both male and female members equally - and I will continue to fight for this.”

SHARE Komal’s story and #SayEnough: together we can end violence against women and girls.

Indonesia

“We need everyone to be part of the effort to eliminate violence against women and girls, so that more and more people will collectively act in their communities.”

Meet Cheper from Indonesia.

As a young boy, Cheper questioned why it was acceptable for his father to beat his mother. He’s now 30 and continues to works tirelessly alongside his wife to protect his daughter and all girls from violence in his community in eastern Indonesia.

“I believe everyone can make a difference - and I started with myself.

Growing up, my mother was often beaten by my father. From an early age, I couldn’t believe this was considered normal and was accepted by my community.

As I got older, I was under pressure from the village to marry a young girl. My wife and I got married when she was still in school. At that time, I did not realise that I had married a child - but now I regret marrying her at such a young age. I realise I’d crushed her dreams.

I am now a fierce advocate for challenging what’s seen as normal - violence against women and girls, including child marriage, is not acceptable. I have produced films with my village to share my story, and spend my days talking in schools to highlight the negative effects of child marriage.

But we need commitment from everyone: not just our community, but also the government, religious leaders, and community leaders to fight child marriage. We need everyone to be part of the effort to eliminate violence against women and girls, so that more and more people will collectively act in their communities.

The name we gave to our daughter contains a prayer, and I hope that she will succeed in her education and can continue the fight to address these issues in society. My hope for the future is that my daughter, or any girl, won’t have to go through what my wife has gone through. We have to do something, however small; rather than doing nothing at all.”

SHARE Cheper’s story and #SayEnough: Together we can end violence against women and girls.

Morocco

“I want women and girls in my country to speak out against violence and claim for their rights. I want them to realize things are not always the way we are taught they are.”

Meet Saida from Morocco.

After 10 years of marriage Saida* was left homeless when her husband imposed a second wife in the house. She now works to fight all forms of discrimination and violence against women in Morocco, supporting survivors to claim for their rights and to challenge what’s accepted as normal in their society.

“One day I woke up to find myself divorced, with no home, no work - nothing.

In Morocco, violence against women and girls exists in many different forms: physical, psychological, economic and legal - especially in the context of divorce. My husband made me get divorced because I did not accept that he was taking a second wife, and I was forced to leave my home. Neither the lawyer nor the judge helped me - they thought this was acceptable because in my country, despite the laws, mentalities change very slowly. Even those who should enforce laws don’t protect women and girls against the different types of violence.

But I realised that I have my own strength, and could help other women see life differently. Together we can raise awareness and challenge what’s accepted in our society, and inform other women about their rights.

Despite all the difficulties, looking to the future is what counts most. That is the message that I share to women survivors of violence - and I also pass it on to my daughter. I teach her to be strong and proud of herself.

I want women and girls in my country to speak out against violence and claim for their rights. I want them to realize things are not always the way we are taught they are.

Across the world, women’s voices have to be heard. Men are not more than women; we all have the same abilities and the same rights.”

SHARE Saida’s story and #SayEnough: Together we can end violence against women and girls.

Zambia

“I hope we can bring violence against women and girls to an end finally. The main thing is that we all come together”

Meet Nalishebo from Zambia.

Nalishebo Kashina is a 20 year old student at the University of Zambia who, alongside other women and men on campus, has decided enough is enough. They’ve come together to challenge the violence they see every day against female students – and are calling for us to all stand up and join them.

“In Zambia, the belief that men are superior to women has been accepted by society for a long time. This means that the sexual violence that female students face at my university is hard to challenge. Some men can feel they can do anything to us without any consequences. But a group of us - men and women - don’t think this is right, and we’re working to fight back.

I created a group on campus to take a stand against all the violence that girls and women face in this country. Guys and girls on campus are working with the university to raise awareness that violence against women and girls is not normal or acceptable, and I am hopeful that things will change by us all coming together.

I hope that in the future, women and girls in my country will have the same opportunities as men, with more women taking senior jobs and becoming successful. Why is it acceptable to condemn the way we dress? We should be free to not live in fear from men.

I hope we can bring violence against women and girls to an end finally. The main thing is that we all come together - just like we have at university - to speak against this violence that’s happening. I’m calling for people to stand up and speak out against the violence. Men need to stand up too and say that violence against women and girls is not acceptable - in institutions and in the whole of our country.”

SHARE Nalishebo’s story and #SayEnough: Together we can end violence against women and girls.

Bolivia

“Who said skatebording ain’t for girls”

Meet Danna from Bolivia

Danna is one of the first female skateboarders in La Paz, the capital city of Bolivia. She became a skateboarder despite objections that the sport was not appropriate for girls. Bolivia, like much of Latin America, remains a very sexist society. Levels of violence against women have reached frightening levels, causing the death of more than 100 women last year. This violence takes root in the common belief that women are less than men, unequal in capabilities and unequal in the rights they enjoy. For Danna, the link is clear, controlling what women can and can´t do, is a first step which can lead to other forms of violence.

I remember walking through a city park as a girl with my mother. I told her “Look mum, I want to try that!” I was already imagining myself riding the skateboard, doing tricks. Yet my mother didn’t think this was appropriate, she said “Where do you see girls? There are no girls here!”

I couldn’t settle for this and when I was 18 the first skate park was built in my city. I built up my courage and asked the boys in the park if I could have a try on a skateboard. I thought they would laugh at me. But instead, they let me use their skateboards and encouraged me to follow my dream.

I didn’t tell my mum, because I knew she wouldn’t approve. When I bought my own skateboard, I hid it under the car in the garage. I would tell her that I was going out shopping with my girlfriends, but really I would head down to the skate park at every chance I had.

Skateboarding has taught me many things. Perseverance is one of them. You learn to fall and get back on your feet. To master that one trick, you might fall a hundred times!

Now the skateboarders of La Paz are like a second family to me. Sometimes we travel to neighbouring towns to try out new skate parks. We spend so much time together. They are like brothers to me now.

Now more girls have joined the skateboarding group. There are now at least 50 in La Paz alone! Who said skateboarding ain’t for girls?

SHARE Danna’s story and #SayEnough: together we can end violence against women and girls.

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